Forever young.

You know those days that we are just in the pits? Yeah, those days. We all have them. Sometimes a family member is sick, a pet passed away, our car broke down. Or someone said some unsavory words, acted disrespectful or hurt your feelings. The days where something rocks our world and leaves us utterly devastated. The days where it just feels like the rays of sunshine are quite making it through the gloom, where we want to just go hide in a cave for a while and let the ickiness pass. You can say with almost complete certainty that you are alone. We feel like a bug that is hitting a windshield. That the world isn’t on our side. We’ve all been there; they aren’t fun days.

But, don’t hold on to them.

The storm passes, the sun rays come back, peace is restored and life carries on. The world isn’t on anyone’s side; it’s as unbiased as a rock and as harsh as an arctic winter. It is an unrealistic person that expects life to be easy and peaceful and uneventful. When life’s giant waves come crashing down on you, ride it out. Hell, sit on top of that wave and embrace the fact that this is YOUR wave. Your challenge; your problem and feelings that only you can tend to. Each problem that we encounter is specific to us.

So when those days come, which they eventually will, take a breath and calmly continue on. Even if it’s inch by inch, you’ll get through it. Tell yourself you can do it, even if it’s just at a whisper. Let people help you, learn so it doesn’t happen again, say what you must say and do what you must do, and move on. These are part of the moments that define you so do what you can and be someone you would be proud of.

This song has always helped me. Don’t mind the video, just listen.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lQksqVL8zSw

(Forever Young Acapella by Audra Mae)

Cheer up buttercup, good things are on their way.

Never let fear decide your fate

I watched a video today that inspired me. You know, those YouTube videos or Oprah stories that, even though they are sad, they still make you wanna get up and do something. And I got to thinking, why do people steer away from the unfamiliar? From the dreams they had when they were kids? From trying to do something extraordinary? People don't do stuff because they are afraid. Mostly afraid to fail. Disappoint. But isn't it pitiful that fear holds us back from working towards our dreams and making them a reality? What's the worst case scenario, you don't achieve your ultimate goal? I don't consider trying a failure, because its not. It took a lot to get up and start from zero, and a legitimate effort deserves respect. And just because it might not work out the first time doesn't mean you're done. Remember that art degree you thought about and even took a few classes for? Go back. Take more classes. Hell, open up a station at your local Sunday market and sell some stuff. Don't be afraid. Ambition transfers out to other things in your life, too. Rarely does an athlete working towards a world record also eat a dozen donuts each morning for breakfast. And while everyone dreams of standing on top of the podium or being featured on the cover of a magazine, the peak moment of success or achievement isn't what people remember. Its the journey along the way, the things that you learn, and the person that you become. The early morning practices, the protein shakes instead of cocktails, the student-budget top ramen dinners, late nights in the library writer paper, and all the frustratingly wonderful memories along the way. Any more people are too afraid to step outside of the box and do what they truly want to do, when life really should be about that. Don't hold back or not do something just because it seems silly or ridiculous.

While the life you live might not always be wonderful and easy, it should definitely be worth living and always remembering.

An Inspirational thought.

Sometimes, life gets tough. Things don't go the way we want them to. We fall down, we get frustrated, we get hurt. Things change, and sometimes we aren't able to immediately see that it might be for the better. Life is messy; nothing is clear cut. But one thing is for sure, no matter what, be grateful and smile because life, even when everything seems to be stacked up against you, is truly a beautiful thing. And remember...

Where there are scars, there are stars.

Recap of my thoughts on this week

Because this week has been tough for so many reasons...

And to post my old Facebook status:

'Athletic events are amazing displays of the strength of the human spirit, not hatred. Sporting events should unite us all and allow us to celebrate what is right in the world, and I hope that despite the fear this doesn't change that. Thoughts with everyone in Boston.'

#bostonstrong

Make it a great weekend everyone!

Seemed relevant for this week:

 

 

Now, go make it a great Friday and have a wonderful weekend!

Wednesday Blues

Rough day? Gas tank on E? No clean socks? Bills due? Haven't filed your taxes? Coffee not helping?

 

HERE: 

I thought it was clever.

 

Make it a great day!